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Originally posted by force_one at 2006-9-4 14:50
You didn't mention the reasons of him to stay there, it was a business trip? pleasure trip?
to take many days in another country it will bring a lot of expenses, unless he is in a friend's or fam ...
It was just a relax...beach...sunshine...wonderful holiday! Nothing about business.
The problem is (or maybe not)
Hes a employer.
I am a employee ( Of course, he is not my employer)
So, he is free to do anything and go anywhere, but I can't.....
Last year, he live in HK.
He said he is going crazy there.
Because the apartment is so small....no friend there, not many things to do, nobody to talk ( he told me the Hk people seems polite but so cool, also he cant speak Chinese or Cantonese)
So...he said he cant stay in Hk anymore, he need to take a break.
He love Thailand very much, in fact, he already live there for over 3 years before we meet.
This time, he go back to Thailand with two reason.
1) get away from HK
2) go back to see his ex-girlfriend
Let me explain why he need to see his ex-girlfriend.
He get separated with his ex-girlfriend about 2 year ago. Because his ex-girlfriend has serious mental problem. She even cant recognise him. The girl's family ask him to go, because the girl will never be cure.
So he need to go back to see the girl, to know she's OK, to know he didn't take the wrong dicision ( leave the girl and leave Thailand). And the most important thing is he need to put this girl behind, all behind his mind. Otherwise he thing is not fair to me and not good for the relationship.
I believe what he have told me at all.
I am not worry about what he is doing there,
Even he want to go back with his ex-girlfriend or find a new girlfriend there.That's fine.
I will not be angry.
The reason why I am so unhappy and depress was he should connect me more oftenly.
Not just send an E-mail to me once week.