Author: violeta

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Post time 2006-9-1 18:16:20 |Display all floors

also tyhe way love is expressed?

i understand your point of view..

love and in love are different...

and the chinese way of expressing love are different..

example..
when i love mail my qingren in meiguo...
this is me..
your eyes shine like the moon dipping into the water to be kissed......
this is him
afang, what did you cook for lunch today..i need your cooking..my tooth aches ..i had something hard to eat..

now this is where a lot of chinese women complain about chinese men not being romantic..and they go for western guys..

i am terribly romantic..it is my nature..
but when i get my lovemail all the way from meiguo with the above sentence written in it..i want to faint  ...why?

cos this is the chinese way of loving me............
he doesn't bull----..every word he says ..he means it..
not overly flowery and romantic..but it says it all

HE loves my cooking!!!!!!!!!!hehe..that gives me something to live for man...

oh he likes my brain too..but i don't use it very often..too precious..lol
oh and to the gent that wrote earlier looking for Xilaren..i think she had a lot of running around to do..

thankyou chinese people for loving us xilarens..
we love you too..
the world needs a lot more love..
a lot more..
and people may think why i open myself so much..
if love is unfathomable and inexhaustible then i am not afraid to give it..
nott just to a man or my parent or my child..
you are also my family..
we breathe the same air, live on the same planet, and above all, share the same pain..even in varying degrees..

for me no one is boring..
even someone coming from the most mundane backround can be a hidden saint..
please..please my pengyous..do not judge someone through looks or intellect. or status...
when you have been ground by age or internal life trasnsformations..all the above three go out of the window..and you are left with..

THE RAW SELF........

love and hugs..

ni de feng xilaren...

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Post time 2006-9-1 18:44:44 |Display all floors

congratulations

congratulations on your success in basketball against america.You are unbeatable.
I have an idea.If you  want to taste my cooking take  xilaren and you both come to Italy.
You won't repent it.You will enjoy the best Italian and chinese food .
You will make me very happy.

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Post time 2006-9-1 20:40:26 |Display all floors

your help

You have helped very much all of you.You made me understand.I tried to find the reason.That hurt me more.
I talked with a friend of his ,also with his mother .I know what  made him love her.
His mother said that it was because he admired her a lot.I admired her as a teacher .She had deep knowledge of life.She always talked a lot about social matters ,philosophy and in general about life.
She was a wise woman .She was near the students and gave advice to them.
She knew how to manipulate situations ,she went out with the students to pubs ,restaurants.
Very near to us.Everybody loved and admired her.

I was conservative ,not outgoing ,yes I was boring for him.I see now.He will have an excellent career near this woman.My only ambitions were to go back to China.I always said that to him.I  did not want to change.

Yes I had some suspicions that he felt bored with me.He was absent -minded ,he did not want to meet me often.I had thought that he was tired because of the lessons.

I will stay in the same college.I can not leave.I will study harder ,be with friends and do have a relationship when I go back to China.
Thank you very much all of you .You helped me very much.

I found out this relationship by chance when I heard that the teacher went to a greek island in the summer.It was the same my ex had been.Then a classmate of mine revealed ...Long story.

I want to forget.
I

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Post time 2006-9-1 22:39:42 |Display all floors

you will get the best..

Violeta..

remember..
YOU ARE NOT BORING..
ONLY DIFFERENT.......

WHEN SOME GREAT DAOIST MASTER WALKS INTO YOUR LIFE AND UNLOCKS YOU

BOY!!! THE WORLD WILL NOT  BE READY FOR THAT GUDANG!!!!!


GO BACK AND UNRAVEL YOUR CHINESE- NESS...

YOU WILL FIND SO MUCH BREADTH AND DEPTH IN YOUR HISTORY, YOUR CULTURE, YOUR SPIRITUALITY...

THIS XILAREN ENVIES YOU...

YOU HAVE A LOT..JUST FIND IT DEEP INSIDE YOU..
BU SHI YOU ARE NOT BORING...
YOU HAVE TOUGHT US A LOT..
LOVE AND HUGS
NE DE FENG XILAREN.,...

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Post time 2006-9-2 01:45:17 |Display all floors

a note to yanjiaren

tha sou grapso argotera ,se ligo.Se filo

Kisses
E.

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Post time 2006-9-2 02:15:32 |Display all floors

RE

Originally posted by xilaren at 2006-9-2 01:45
tha sou grapso argotera ,se ligo.Se filo

Kisses
E.

arxisa na grafo.tha to paris se ligo.Tha ine polla.
Filia
E.

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Post time 2006-9-2 03:14:09 |Display all floors

to xilaren

xilaren are you ok?Is there anything wrong?where are you?

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