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This is not a culture mistake, it's about behavior
First at all , i didnt want to reply ur post because at the beginning u ask only for chinesse responds, now i see u got many replies from different people, so here i go with mine.|
I don't want to ad more of the others people already told to u
but i think ur girlfriend is enought mature to understand her situation with you and ur behavior in a difficult moment as ur brother problem.
You said "she broke up with me earlier for my mistakes"
If she broke up with u as u said for ur own mistakes, so, please don't blame her or blame her culture about ur mistakes or problems that u have.
And you asked her to spend the weekend with her, mmmm, and what about your brother? he will be in the hospital with his pains while u r with the gf in ur house very sad?
I understand when we experience hard moments we need the company of our loveones, also i hug and / or some words of support
but what you requested to your gf is totally different.
This action tells a lot from you.
I am glad ur gf use her common sense and refused to be with you. as i told you this is not a culture mistake, your gf action is a normal action beeing chinesse or not.
And she was so nice to you trying to get some medicines for your brother, she is a really woman.
So, next time don't use your brother's tragedy to get a weekend pleasure. Don't be insane
At your age you need to learn a lot, and appreciate more your girlfriend, i think she doesn't deserve you.