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Originally posted by audreyxu at 2006-7-17 15:20
I am reluctant to take part here, because i am afraid you will judge me a mean, jealous people too. Is xiao really so bad? If she had ever done anything wrong, you've banned her, that' ...
Don't worry about anyone talking about you the way they talk about xiao. Xiao was an unusual case, no one else here has come even CLOSE to what she has done, and in my opinion, I think it's ok for everyone to be talking about her because everyone needs to know that she was not a normal member who simply called bad names. From what I have been reading recently, her activity fits the definition of a cyberstalker or cyberbully.
You asked "Is xiao really so bad?" The answer is yes, she was, and everyone needs to know it so they can stay clear of her if she returns or emails them looking for sympathy or asking for help. She has had at least 3-4 usernames already that she has admitted.
If she returns and anyone figures out who she is (PLEASE don't start accusing new members) she will probably deny it at first, then admit it either in rage or with a sweet facade of playing the innocent victim looking for sympathy. I would suggest ignoring her completely, including through PMs.
(Now that she has read this she will probably try to prove me wrong and respond some other way, such as a normal member saying "I'm sorry, I will leave SA alone, just let me be a normal member now." Still ignore her.)