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Post time 2006-7-12 14:56:15 |Display all floors
i'm 23 now, sometimes i feel marriage is so far from me. most of my  mid-school classmates are the mother of several-year-old kids.

my bf said he will marry me after he owns a new house &  a car. he is 24 this year and just graduate from school this June. i have waited him nearly 2 years,we seldom have the chance to meet each other. sometimes i doubt if there is "love" between us. we talk less and less.

when do i plan to marry? i'm not sure. maybe 26?28? it seems so far! everything is uncertain for me.

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Post time 2006-7-12 14:59:10 |Display all floors
Hmm..marriage is not something that you can plan....
I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you.

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Post time 2006-7-12 15:51:04 |Display all floors

Reply #2 sinfulangel's post

sounds reasonable

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Post time 2006-7-12 15:53:10 |Display all floors
hey, i dont know why people like to plan marriage or things..cos usually it doesnt work out in real life..cos you plan it...

in your situation..i dont see there is a high chance u guys will be together..cos u havent been talked and seen regularly for 2 yeras...i can barely understand how can people maintain a long distance love..lol..they are indeed like challenges i assume!
I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you.

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Post time 2006-7-12 15:58:32 |Display all floors
Originally posted by lily200801 at 2006-7-12 14:56
i'm 23 now, sometimes i feel marriage is so far from me. most of my  mid-school classmates are the mother of several-year-old kids.

my bf said he will marry me after he owns a new house &   ...



High-qualified women hard to find husband
(Chinanews.cn)
Updated: 2006-07-10 11:23
Recently, marriage-seeking women are two times higher than males in Anhui's matrimonial agencies. Women who have good academic credentials and high salary feel difficult to find husbands. A manager of the matrimonial center run by local Women's Federation said currently such phenomenon was common. Two thirds of registered members of the center are women, 70% of them bachelor degree holders. However, most marriage-seeking males care more about women's age than about their academic achievements.

Ms. Wan Zhiying, vice director of the center, indicated many professional women working in the media and enterprises had come to register recently. Their comprehensive qualities were excellent, but they still had difficulties finding boyfriends. She said, when the center recommended these ladies to males, the latter refused to meet them for fear that their jobs were insecure and their social relations sophisticated.
Many factors cause this phenomenon. On one hand, social environment forces woman to get better jobs and make academic achievements. Some of them failed to notice that their age was disadvantageous in the marriage-seeking process. On the other hand, in traditional Chinese views, husbands should be more successful than their wives, and they can feel the pressures from society if their wives are superior to them. While women also want to find men who are superior to themselves. All these factors increase the difficulties for women to find husbands.



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Post time 2006-7-12 16:05:15 |Display all floors
I wonder what does buddha say to you, caringhk about marriage??
I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you.

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Post time 2006-7-12 16:32:49 |Display all floors

uncertain...

Originally posted by lily200801 at 2006-7-12 14:56
i'm 23 now, sometimes i feel marriage is so far from me. most of my  mid-school classmates are the mother of several-year-old kids.

my bf said he will marry me after he owns a new house &   ...

do you think it wise to make a life long commitment to someone if you're uncertain?

anyway... 23 is still young... l wouldn't start panicking yet :)

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