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Post time 2006-6-29 16:14:57 |Display all floors
Originally posted by force_one at 2006-6-29 11:44
well

numbers 1, 5, 6, 7 and 8 is basic in a relationship, very important
number 2 and 3, is not important,
number 4, we can deal with it (if there is love in both sides)

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I think many are so sensitive & so shy, so DO NOT answer 2&3!!!
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Post time 2006-6-29 18:33:12 |Display all floors
Originally posted by caringhk at 2006-6-29 16:14


I think many are so sensitive & so shy, so DO NOT answer 2&3!!!


well i already answered
number 2 and 3 is not important
if somebody is sensitive or shy, what can we do?
you posted the polls, so why not to answered?
as u said, there are many adults in this forum !!!

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Post time 2006-6-29 19:03:14 |Display all floors
Originally posted by force_one at 2006-6-29 18:33


well i already answered
number 2 and 3 is not important
if somebody is sensitive or shy, what can we do?
you posted the polls, so why not to answered?
as u said, there are many adults in th ...


YES, good u answered, gentlemanly!!!

Now i have to add this.
Generally,2&3 is NOT important in the Western society.
Love do.
China is different, but the changes will be there beginning with few....

There was one, brave one indeed who voted. Congrats.
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Post time 2006-7-3 19:24:33 |Display all floors
Originally posted by caringhk at 2006-6-29 19:03


YES, good u answered, gentlemanly!!!

Now i have to add this.
Generally,2&3 is NOT important in the Western society.
Love do.
China is different, but the changes will be there beginnin ...



Only cohabiting during the weekends(Chinanews.cn)
Updated: 2006-06-27 13:52

In China's major cities, a new lifestyle "semi-honeyed couples" is being actively tried out by certain white couple husbands and wives.


"Semi-honeyed couples" mean married people living apart in the same city: two persons married to each other but not living together and only cohabiting during the weekends. On weekdays, they will occasionally date like lovers, have dinner, see a movie, but afterwards they will say warm goodbyes like friends and each goes his or her way.
Some couples choose this lifestyle because objectively they have no other choice. For example, one spouse may work at an office far away from their home. Others, however, do it because they want their relationship to maintain a degree of freshness and give each other sufficient freedom, hoping the "absence makes the heart grow fonder" effect to sustain "marital vitality".
Di Xiaolan, chief doctor and sex psychologist of Beijing Huilongguan Hospital, said that one phase of this "semi-honeyed" lifestyle, for a short time, may help couples who have been leading too dull a life and trying to use appropriate distance to restore that sweet and fresh spousal feelings. However, too long a period of "separation" may make some people gradually find single lifestyle comfortable and tend towards staying "alone". Furthermore, there is the possibility that too big a distance removes restraints on both parties and lead to extra-marital affairs. In Dr. Di's clinic, for quite a few couples, because of "carelessness" when they enjoyed the freedom of living apart from each other, the separation became for real and      ended in divorce.


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Post time 2006-7-3 22:52:10 |Display all floors

I don't think distance love will work

If the couple really care each other, they should live together, instead of leaving the absence to make mistakes.

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Post time 2006-7-4 09:47:30 |Display all floors
Originally posted by sophiezcq at 2006-7-3 22:52
If the couple really care each other, they should live together, instead of leaving the absence to make mistakes.



Fully AGREE!!!

One of the common reason for breakup!!!

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Post time 2006-7-4 10:48:11 |Display all floors
Originally posted by caringhk at 2006-7-4 09:47



Fully AGREE!!!

One of the common reason for breakup!!!

Also seen in the USA & elsewhere.............


When couple work in distance,the passion get weak, the relationship bond become fragile.Once a

Third-Person squeeze into or other problem emerge,the marriage bog down and break.

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