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Post time 2006-5-30 03:47:07 |Display all floors
Oh my God, sex experience at 7?

Shows how ignorant even some adults are when they talk about sex education.

Question really is what do people know and understand about sex education?  

If I recall correctly, I had my first sex education at about 12.  Then, we had a qualified nurse coming to our school and distributing pamphlets to explain changes and development within us and to allay fears as we face them, especially for girls when they start menstruation.  

Boys were excluded from the sessions which the girls attended, so I don’t really know if the boys had similar sessions to help them face their own puberty though I think they did.

My view is that sex education should be taught over stages and it should be taught by qualified personnel (doctors and nurses preferred), which is important.  

I won’t advocate that sex is a “beautiful” experience to teenagers and youths at schooling age (which I think is irresponsibility) as that would only encourage them, being naturally curious at that stage.  Rather I would emphasise abstinence.  I would stress on the consequences of sexual intercourse like babies will be produced and the sexual diseases associated with it, but more importantly how they should grow up to be responsible adults.  

But at the end of the day, I think parents play the “THE” most important role in their children’s sex education.  Family values and bondage are important influences on the children’s growing up.  The lack and absence of them is when television, internet, etc take over, and which way it goes will also depend on the individual youth’s disposition.


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Post time 2006-5-30 03:54:57 |Display all floors

Why does Whampoa need Sexual education

The fact that your legs got cobwebs and is collecting dust on a dialy basis. There is no need for you to ever of had sexual education as that just made you completely go over the cliff on how disgusting sex is. I do agree with you that parents play the most crucial role. When my dad found out I had sex for the first time, he told me as long as I got decent report cards I can have all the sex I want hahaha (he was joking though but I didn't take it as a joke)~

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Post time 2006-5-30 03:56:23 |Display all floors

Reply #7 eyeofstorm's post

eyeofstorm,

True spiritrace is sad but I think you are pathetic.

Sometimes, you gweilos really make wonder if you are naturally made of "porn-stuff" or "porn-stuff made".  But whichever way doesn't matter.  What matters is your "beautiful" experience at the expense of that poor soul.  Hahaha!!!!  You surely love your women, don't you?  



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Post time 2006-5-30 04:07:11 |Display all floors

Reply #9 eyeofstorm's post

Why does Whampoa need Sexual education

The fact that your legs got cobwebs and is collecting dust on a dialy basis. There is no need for you to ever of had sexual education as that just made you completely go over the cliff on how disgusting sex is. I do agree with you that parents play the most crucial role. When my dad found out I had sex for the first time, he told me as long as I got decent report cards I can have all the sex I want hahaha (he was joking though but I didn't take it as a joke)~

Good grades are for most Asian kids the passport to freedom.


At least that confirms that your American girls have some sex experience by the age of 14.  FACT!

Thank you.

Even your dad is screwed!  Your mum, okay?
  

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Post time 2006-5-30 04:17:32 |Display all floors
Where did my post indicate American girls have some sex experience by the age of 14?? Where did you get this number / quantitative mumbo jumbo from?? I know its not in my post because I can't even find it. Tell me where in your undersides did you pull this out of???

Ya my dad screws my mom...what the hell is wrong with that?? Im thankful too because I wouldn't be here today dissing your dumbass if it wasn't for them.
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Post time 2006-5-30 04:26:41 |Display all floors

Reply #12 eyeofstorm's post

Ya my dad screws my mom...what the hell is wrong with that?? Im thankful too because I wouldn't be here today dissing your dumbass if it wasn't for them.



That way?  Is that what your gweipo mum thinks is "beautiful" experience and enjoy herself?


Yes, you did come out but I think it must be quite reluctantly.


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Post time 2006-5-30 06:01:01 |Display all floors
Ok
#1 - let's give spiritrace the benefit of the doubt until we hear what he means by  "sexual experience". He may mean peeking into a girl's pants while she peeked into his, or something mildly curious, or he may mean more, we don't know.

#2 - When I was in the 4th grade, they had us girls on one side of the gym watching a movie about getting our periods, and the boys were on the other side (with a wall in between) learning something mysterious. I later discovered they may have been learning about "wet dreams" and what that stuff is that comes out of their penis that isn't pee.

#3 - I think it's good that schools give some sex ed, but I think it should have already been done by that time at home.

Here's how I did it little by little, no surprises later in life, just answer their natural questions as they come up (my son is now a teenager):

Toddler age - "Mommy where do babies come from?" "From the mommies belly" is usually enough, or explain there's a special place inside mommy, or whatever. They don't need much detail. None of this mythology crud about storks or fairies please....

Age 4-5  - "But if the baby is in the belly, doesn't the food land on his head?" Then you explain there's a special place inside, etc.
"How does it come out?" You could say there's a special hole called the vagina down near where the mommy pees that is only used for babies.

Age 5-6 - "How does the baby get in the mommy?" This is the tricky part, but you must give them some kind of true idea - That there are little tiny eggs inside every woman, etc. How is the daddy involved? You can simply say "he plants a special kind of seed in mommy" or you can tell them what "making love" means, that mommy & daddy kiss a lot, and touch each other in special ways that make a baby.... if they ask what ways, tell them they'll find out when they're older and fall in love. (don't get picky, we're talking about a 5 yr old here!)

Age 8+  - They are old enough to know by now that the man's penis is involved. If you don't tell them the truth, they will get ideas from other kids, movies, etc. You don't want them getting wrong ideas, so just be honest with them now.

As they are ready for more detail...
You could also say things like  - the seeds are inside the man and he has to put them inside the woman... how does he do that? They come out of his penis.... so he has to put his penis in her vagina, so be careful and don't put your penis near any girl's vaginas or you could make a baby by accident... haha.... I probably said something like that to my son when he was old enough.

Then you must tell them they can get diseases from sex, and that they must use a condom EVERY time unless they want a baby and they know the other person has no diseases.... or whatever you want to say.

I'm sorry, was any of this a shock to any of the adults here?

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