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Post time 2006-6-26 06:47:38 |Display all floors

Reply #97 freakyqi's post

freakyqi wrote –
As for pornography being degrading, I think it depends on the type of pornography and the opinion of who's watching it. There's porn where everyone's of age, and they're having fun, all seeming to enjoy themselves, all seeming to take part of their own free will. Like "Girls Gone Wild", advertised on late night TV on certain channels. I don't see that as degrading. I wouldn't want my kid seeing it, and I wouldn't give them money for it, I don't necessarily like it personally, but I wouldn't call it degrading and tell others they shouldn't watch it. I've also seen some porn (photos I'm thinking of in particular) where the woman's eyes looked like she was on drugs and it made me wonder if she was even a willing participant. That disgusted me, imagining that maybe she wasn't even fully aware or able to decide clearly. In that case I'd think it was degrading.

As for men being degraded, I think it's equal for them. Just because they're the "active" one, doing the act TO the girl, doesn't mean he's not being degraded. If I saw him as a rude abusive man, taking advantage of girls in the scene, I'd think that's degrading and shows a bad image of men. But if he is acting in a loving way, and they are both enjoying themselves, then I don't think I'd see it as degrading to anyone.



You’ve given me more than what I have asked, but that’s OK.

So, those are your thoughts?  I wonder whether your husband thinks the same way that pornography is degrading to men, whether as participants or audience.  Perhaps, you can ask him and share his thoughts here too.  

To me, pornography is degrading and there is no doubt about it.  My question really is –

whampoa -
Referring to my signature, the women umm … or I should say, some women think pornography degraded women.  Mr pimp thinks it degraded men.

Do you agree and what do you think of his view and why?



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MORAL DECAY, PROMISCUITY and pornography which...
DEGRADED women.

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Post time 2006-6-26 09:46:31 |Display all floors
Uh-oh,  here we go on another topic probably... you asked what my husband thinks of it - I'm not married. (the shock, the horror!) But most guys I know probably have the attitude that if the women are doing it freely then it's ok. Now, it's a whole other issue about WHY the women do it... if they are desperate for money, or they actually like it, or they were coerced.... I think those situations are different.

Well, I gave my view on the degrading issue. I don't feel like reviewing what "Mr Pimp" thinks, and I dont' care. You know his view, you know mine, compare them how you will, I won't comment on him.

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Post time 2006-6-26 13:19:32 |Display all floors
Sex ed begins at home. I'd say around grade 5 or 6.

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Post time 2006-6-26 13:42:39 |Display all floors
My "sex ed" began with porn when I was 9.
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Post time 2006-6-26 22:49:33 |Display all floors

WHAM PAO

I am disapointed that you dont believe that porn is degreding to men!  
Thanks to porn so many people i meet think men are just sex fiends.  Some of us dont watch porn..never had..further more its degrading to me to see the men as being either dominatrixes or just submitted to a sexual desire.  
I FIND IT DEGRADING that you think its only an insult to women!
ITs degrading to us men who think things through and are not controlled by our penis!

Sex education should start when teh child shows an interest in these things.  There is not an actual age when it should begin but more like a time in the childs life where he is curious about these things!  
No more cabbage patch stories!!!1

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Post time 2006-6-26 23:14:18 |Display all floors
Originally posted by hidenseek at 2006-6-26 22:49

I am disapointed that you dont believe that porn is degreding to men!


Is a nature documentary depicting two lions mating degrading to lions?
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Post time 2006-6-26 23:24:02 |Display all floors
ITs degrading to us men who think things through and are not controlled by our penis!


I firmly believe you have successfully transformed to a women then.

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