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Post time 2006-6-16 06:34:05 |Display all floors
I'd like to add that loss of parental control doesn't necessarily go hand in hand with broken homes, single families, etc. There are plenty of kids from two-parent homes running around unsupervised, parents not knowing where they are.  AND there are plenty of kids in single parent homes who are VERY well raised, their parent knows where they are, they have been brought up properly, etc. My family contains examples of both, as well as examples of two-parent families who raise their kids well.

And let's not mention the early sex that happens in all-girl Catholic schools with the strictest parents! They are taught it's bad and dirty and sinful, so... they get curious... then when they try it and find it was not bad & dirty, they feel their parents lied to them. So strictness and too much controlling is also not good.

As in everything, a balance is important.

And what's wrong with teaching about sex early anyway? I still say it should be taught in stages. There is no RIGHT AGE. It's part of life, like eating properly and exercising.... kids should learn in bits & pieces suitable for them at each stage.

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Post time 2006-6-16 06:59:45 |Display all floors

Oh, really?

Perhaps, the 2 ladies from posts #77 and 78 can help me.
Originally posted by liangzai at 2006-6-15 05:39

On a more personal note, I would like to add that if pornography is degrading to women, it must, as a consequence, also be degrading to men (especially pornography where only men participate).  


What do you think of that?


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When asked what they least admired about the West, they replied
MORAL DECAY, PROMISCUITY and pornography which...
DEGRADED women.

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Post time 2006-6-16 08:42:19 |Display all floors

#79

I think you Ms.Whampoa should go back to your foot-binding practices and convert yourself to Islam (you will fit right in I promise you that). On a further note, your crusade for the sake of feminism approach as a minority in society and believe it or not, no one cares or wants to continue to hear your senseless and backward drivel.

Put a needle steep down through your broken record please, because quite frankly you won't be missed~

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Post time 2006-6-16 10:06:43 |Display all floors
Originally posted by whampoa at 2006-6-16 06:59
Perhaps, the 2 ladies from posts #77 and 78 can help me.



Help you what?
(I'm a little lost there)

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Post time 2006-6-16 11:23:07 |Display all floors
Agreed with you, freakyqi... what does our raging whampoa want from us?

It's not the number of parents involved, I think, that determines how your kids are raised; it's the amount of love and care provided. A single mom or dad who's truly devoted to the kids is much better than a pair of parents who are neglectful or abusive.

What do I think of porn, whampoa? Mostly I think it's funny... it's got absolutely no basis in reality. I rarely watch it myself, and if I do, I'm with my boyfriend. In small doses I see no problem with it (as long as it's all legal-age, consenting adults stuff), but if people get addicted or base their ideals of men/women off of it, then it becomes damaging.

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Post time 2006-6-16 13:26:49 |Display all floors

Reply #1 szl8179's post

Wow - so many battles fought and so little won.

You want a global answer or a chinese one.
'cos in china, kids usually lived with their parents till 25 or more.

In foreigners, at 18 they are told to leave the house or have the liberty to do it.
What's on your mind now........ooooooooooooooo la la....Kind Regards

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Post time 2006-6-16 20:09:06 |Display all floors
Originally posted by whampoa at 2006-6-16 06:59

Also on my new signature, care to comment?


Sure:

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