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I think you generalize too much. Some white guys may think they are number 1 in America, but that is not in all cases. Sure there are some whites guys that are social butterflies, and have many qualities to attract women regardless of their race, but there are also socially-inept white guys who have a Asian fetish. These dorky white guys are not lady’s men, and struggle to get attention. They may have many strikes against them including being divorced, not gainfully employed, or employed but in some blue collared, low paying job with no power to speak of, have a lot of negative baggage, may not be attractive, and terminally dorky.
I have two assistants in my office, one is an Asian woman, who is reasonably attractive, and the other is a Latina. Both are outspoken, and pit bull like in a good way, since they are my screeners for unwanted guest at the office. One day, this dorky white guy, Paul, his real name, came by the office, but I still don’t know what his purpose was in visiting my office. He kept going to my Asian assistant pretending to ask more stupid questions. Anyway, she about had enough since she is a busy woman, so she told him to go talk to the other assistant. Later that day, I received a call from Paul, and he was complaining to me that my assistant was rude to him and she was unprofessional. It turns out he was afraid to talk to the Latina, and was under the impression that my assistant would be the stereotypical passive Asian woman. She is not, and he learned that the hard way.
It took a lot for me to keep from laughing into the phone at this dorky white guy’s complaint. When I gathered myself, I told him as professionally as I could, “I trust my assistants to do her job. If someone is here for business purposes, and they conduct themselves accordingly, they will be treated with respect. However, if they have other things on their mind, which has nothing to do with business, then my assistants have my blessing to usher them out of the office, as this is a place of business”. I guess that wasn’t what he wanted to hear, so he hasn’t return to my office again.
Paul, and other dorky white guys, apparently buys into the passive Asian woman stereotype. My assistant must have given him a rude awakening. Rather than being number 1, some white guys are the most dorky, socially-inept, stereotype buying, baggage filled guys, that some unfortunate and equally baggage filled woman will be stuck with if they are unlucky. If you really think about it, it is sad indeed. This reminds me of the dorky white guy who purposely look for the mail-order bride, because he wants to feel better about himself, and purposely look for someone he deems lesser than him.