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Thank you for your replies. Now I understand more about chinesse culture,
I felt really sorry for whom lost their mother as freakiqi, my respect to you, but I didn’t understand another reply who said, that to talk about mother is a serious stuff, for this kind of topic is good to do it in a boardroom, wow, I just was talking about love but that reply confused me.
I also understand that this it is an open forum, and everybody is free to talk what they want to talk, but, if the people express many opinions of differents topics, why not about their mothers? I mean, comparing with many replies some of them with excellent opinions and advices and others, (many) with empty meanings.
Now I understand for some chinesse people prefer the silent feelings, and to show it or prove it not with words, just with actions, that’s great. I didn’t know it., also I didn’t know that Mother’s day is only an foreign (not western only) custome, I thought in this country chinesse people celebrate that day too because I saw this post in this forum and I think was writing for a chinesse person
As I said in my post, I didn’t try to compare or judge or mark the differences between chinesse and other cultures, I just saw the Mother’s day post and I know many people watch and reply many posts, In my opinion or in my culture, I think you can show your love with actions, with words, for others with silent, I understand there are many ways to prove it but as some of you said, chinesse people are not cold, and continues saying maybe the foreigners are cold too, because “they are cold by not living or caring the family, too independent etc.etc.” in my case, I left my family very far from here, but I left because I want to be succesfull and I do the sacrifice to left my family to make a better future for me and them, even we are far away, why? because I love them.
Always my respect for all of you, your cultures and your opinions,