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Post time 2006-5-3 20:29:54 |Display all floors
I have not given the answer to myself which kind of love is preferable for somebody to feel.If you love somebody with passion, which is real love for me, then you feel like touching  the sky ,like having taken a strong drug ,like being a bird etc.At the same time however you get hurt very easily because you do not dare to think about losing your lover.His love will never be enough for you.You live a lot of happy moments but also many hurtful situations.You are jealous andworry every moment about him.

On the contrary if you love somebody in moderation you do not live passionate moments with him ,you never touch heaven ,you feel very well touching the earth.
At the same time you worry in moderation ,you are not jealous ,you do not feel panic with the idea of losing him.
In the past I felt so secure having a love affair without passion.I enjoyed mm partener's love more than my feelings to him.
Recently I felt the real love for somebody else so I am living my torture.
I am still wondering what it is better.I really do not know.I would like to hear some other options.

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Post time 2006-5-4 01:27:02 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by xilaren at 2006-5-3 20:29
I have not given the answer to myself which kind of love is preferable for somebody to feel.If you love somebody with passion, which is real love for me, then you feel like touching  the sky ,like  ...



Real love does not knock on our door many times.There are people who were never lucky enough to taste it.There are people who lived their life without knowing what real love is.
You are very lucky to have these feelings.My opinion is that  life without real passion is a meaningless life.
Security does not give happiness.love in moderation is dead love.

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Post time 2006-5-4 04:06:49 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by evapapa at 2006-5-4 01:27



Real love does not knock on our door many times.There are people who were never lucky enough to taste it.There are people who lived their life without knowing what real love is.
You are very ...


This happens all the time if the passion is from both sides.You may suffer one time and after that you feel happier than before.If we are happy all the time it is boring.I vote for passionate love.

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Post time 2006-5-4 04:11:09 |Display all floors

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I liked the phrase 'if you are happy all the time it is boring'
Yes you are right.

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Post time 2006-5-4 05:45:46 |Display all floors

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Post time 2006-5-4 05:52:19 |Display all floors
I think love with passion is best. Some of the passion wears off over time, though--that's how most relationships work.

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Post time 2006-5-4 06:06:31 |Display all floors

love under control

it's easier to keep up to expectations! Passion is great too... sometimes!

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