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Post time 2006-4-6 19:09:41 |Display all floors
Love vs Infatuation

Infatuation is almost always instantaneous.It blooms quickly.Love usually takes route slowly & grows in time.

Infatuation stimulates and thrills but it is also uncertain & insecure.You are filled
with a feeverish excietement when your partner is near ,but u feel miserable when he is not .Love brings security the warmth when ones partner is near & it does not diminishes when he is far ,u want him near but u are still near him when he is far.

Infatuation makes u loose ur appetite.U can't concentrate ,u can't keep ur mind on ur work .U get short tempered & are unpleasant with the family.But in Love u can be tolerable .U can work harder b'coz u want to excell for the loved one.U are happy & sure so this makes u positive with everyone.

Infatuation wants u to get married right away.U can't wait ,u cannot loose him or her.Though u prefer to marry once.Love knows u can wait ,u can plan your future with complete confidence.

Infatuation blooms for the desire of self gratifaction ,he or she is fulfilling an urgent need in ur life.Love is always warm out of deep concern for the welfare of the loved one.Misfortune strengthen the bond of love.

Infatuation is largely a matter of sin,ur relationship almost always wants to indulge in sin ,But in Love there si purity,piousness............

Infatuation couples usually finds it easy to disagree.But when u are in love u are ready to accept the differences & still accept each other.

In infatuation sparks off thoughts of jealousy & lack of trust are there.When he or she is away u wonder he or she is with another.U are jealous when he or she talks or laughs with another.But Love understands that there is perfect trust in the relationship.All other with whom one laughs or talks are out of the sacredness of this relationship.

U fall into infatuation but u never fall in Love.Infatuation may lead u to do things that u would not normally approve of.Things that may make u worried someday.Infatuation says I lOve you for what u give me when i am with u,Love instead always makes u a better person than u were before.Love says I love you not only for what u are but for what i am when i am with you.............

So All who read this article always be sure that it is only True love that will last forever and not just outer looks..they can decieve but true love will always remain loyal........

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Post time 2006-4-6 19:12:51 |Display all floors

Reply #1 masterkung's post

Too GOOD to be true

but in reality, it is TRUE.

Only time will tell.

What about love at first sight???
Ideas Master!!!
What's on your mind now........ooooooooooooooo la la....Kind Regards

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Post time 2006-4-6 19:18:03 |Display all floors
yes caringhk brother , i fell in lov at first sight with a girl of 14 and i was 18 then , but later i realized it was infatuation, i still am mesmerised by her ..............

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Post time 2006-4-6 21:35:16 |Display all floors
This is an important post; I hope a lot of people read it. I think there are a lot of young, naive forumites here who keep thinking they're in love with some girl or boy they only knew for a few days or weeks when it's actually infatuation.

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Post time 2006-4-6 22:18:30 |Display all floors
Maybe love is blind and infatuation is instinct of human being .

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Post time 2006-4-7 02:05:52 |Display all floors
Originally posted by sockmonkey at 2006-4-6 21:35
This is an important post; I hope a lot of people read it. I think there are a lot of young, naive forumites here who keep thinking they're in love with some girl or boy they only knew for a few da ...


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Post time 2006-4-7 02:14:30 |Display all floors
Originally posted by masterkung at 2006-4-6 19:09
Love vs Infatuation

Infatuation is almost always instantaneous.It blooms quickly.Love usually takes route slowly & grows in time.

Infatuation stimulates and thrills but it is also uncert ...


Thanks MK.

Very timely article. Couple of people in this section desperately need to be enlightened in relationship and emotional management. I'd say infatuation is more like obsession, stemming out of purely selfish desires to actualize one's ego. This becomes apparent when we listen to people talk about the object of their affection. Those in love only speak of the endearing qualities of those they love, while those obsessed only express their desiers in terms of "I want..., I need..., etc."
"扶摇万重兮,
放我麒麟冲荡。
清清渭水兮,
舞我手中霓裳。 "

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