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It's true, from their views...most of the Chinese guys, specially some pathetic and selfish college guys, they do. They wish their wife to be virgins, in their opinion, you can have an experienced girl as girlfriend, but not to marry her, and they won't marry a girl who's not virgin---at least they can't accept even if they get married, it'll haunting in their mind everyday(it's even a good reason to attack the girl in the future), while allowing themselves "have fun"---that's even became something worth showing off.|
They wrote articles, posts, most of them were just whining or sounding ridiculous, announcing their ideas of virgins and why they want virgins(like they believe it's scientific), but for my part, there's only one point---sexist
On the contrary, I seldom see girls demanding their boyfriend or husband to be virgins, those girls seem weak and couldn't find anything to disprove the idea, as a feminist I never allowe this happen..
My point is clear--if a guy has virgin complex, he has to keep himself virgin while demanding his wife---it's not bad to be celibate before marriage if they wish..
If he's not, he has no right to demand others...well, I don't mind my future husband's a virgin or not---cause I never want to get married..eek...
But I don't know the conditions in other countries, might be the same, some men, no matter where they come from, are just similarly selfish.
[ Last edited by superkylin at 2006-3-2 03:03 PM ]