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I am currently in Japan, but I have fallen in love with a beautiful woman from China. We have only been together for a short time, but she is unbelievable. She is intelligent, kind, caring, sweet, shy, and very beautiful. She has so many good qualities... It seems too good to be true. I have been waiting a long time to find someone that shares many of the same qualities that I do. Anyway, she is visiting her family in China now and will be gone for six weeks. She has already been gone for two weeks, and I miss her so much. My heart is racing just thinking about her now. However, I am so confused. My work contract will finish in just over a year and a half, and her university in just under a year. I am twenty two years old and she is twenty five. I care about her, and becuase I do, I worry about our future. I have a bachelor of arts and science, advanced TESOL diploma, and an international teacher's license. This is just my first step in my career. Having these qualifications allows me to get a fairly well paying teaching job in Japan, Korea, or China.. All of my plans have changed because of this woman. I can't believe it. I wanted to have fun and explore, but now... (sigh) I would like to say money doesn't matter, but it does. If we were to get married I would want to be able to support her and give her a good life... My current prospects before meeting her were..|
Elementary school specialist in Japan. 22,000 CNY per month
ECC or AEON Japan= 17,000 CNY per month
Internship at Canadian Embassy in Tokyo= ??
Government of Korea English program= 25,000 CNY per month
Royal Canadian Mounted Police= 30,000-35000 CNY per month
CSIS= 30,000 -35,000 per month
Return to university for an additional two years so that I can teach in Canada... -10000 CNY per month
As you can see most of the prospects listed above require a great deal of travelling, except for the last. If I return to university, it would be a difficult few years, but stability would soon follow.
Right now, I feel like I would do anything for her. She can't speak English and I can't speak Chinese, so we communicate in Japanese. I can usually get my message across, although it can be difficult it times.
It is possible that I could study Mandarin in China. It is also possible she can study English while I study at unviersity in Canada. I guess I will see what happens in the next year. I just needed to share me feelings, thoughts and ideas. I would appreciate any comments or advice. Thank you.