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matt - are you in your avatar?
I guess this topic can be for anyone at this point!|
I like getting compliments, but as matt said, too many will seem fake... and if it's clearly not true we will think you're just saying it without really meaning it, and that's VERY bad. It will seem cheap, like you'll just say anything to get to us. So make sure you mean your compliments.
"""and then there will be a moment of spontaneous emotion that will cause a person, man or woman, to suddenly realize that they are expeiencing a much deeper emotion than usual. You alreay know who you want, but when her moment arrives, make the best of it. """
matt, that's a very good insight. sounds manipulative, but.... not really. Hmm. I'm not sure what to make of it, yet I know what you mean. If, at some point soon in the relationship a person feels like "this could be the one" or "I think I love him/her", and no one acts on it, they let it pass, and both end up thinking the other does not feel the same way.... the best part may pass you by and you may not get it back.
On the other hand, if you recognize that time period, and you are serious about her, maybe you can make sure you send her signals about how much you like her. Not too much, maybe an extra gift here & there, or some deeper conversations that show your true self more.
If a guy talks about his childhood & family I know he either likes me or considers me a good friend. If he doesn't ever want to talk about personal things in his life i would worry that he doesn't want me to get too close. So after a while make sure you have some honest open or deeper conversations than just about school or work or movies.