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note: i study in tokyo but i need help from u guys who are living in china!! |
i know i must be a loser to ask this but anyway, can u guys give me some tips to attract more this chinese girl i m beginning to go out.
i mean i have dated japanese and europeans, but wow! everytime i try to go out with a chinese girl, i blow it or i dont know, i just dont get what a chinese girl think is romantic, what phrases they like to hear, where i should ask her out, etc. i mean do u have any idea what are the "do" and "donts" in a normal romantic relationship with a chinese girl.
she is the only daugther in her family, 22, doing a master in my same university here in tokyo, shes from shanghai. i mean she always talks so much about how important her family is for chinese (specially being only daughter), that in china guys are expected to treat girls like this or that, but well i just dont have a clue! i m not chinese! i also want to learn how to deal with the fact her family expects her to date chinese guys, not a white european guy like me!! and yeah she doesnt even try to go to the first base! she wants u know go in white dress to the wedding...i need some help here too,at least to agree her to play a bit more.
so cmon any guy or chinese member, please give me tips of the things that are considered romantic, appropriate in china!!
the sad thing in here is that most of my europeans friends are kind of racists and they think i m kind of crazy to date a chinese girl..like if there s a rule that says i must only like and date europeans. so here i am asking for advice.
remember her description:
1. 22 years old
2. from shanghai
3. a mom that calls her everynight and asks her to avoid non-chinese guys and to remember how important is to go to wedding on a white dress...u know what i mean
4. only daugther
5. she doesnt drink (u know the ideal of a family chinese girl)
6. she doesnt like to dance (chinese dont have as a passtime to go dancing)
what u have done until now is:
1. u have gone out 3 times
2. u have kissed her and some first base moves but thats it
and u have known each other for more than 6 months in ur university in tokyo
how would u approach a girl like this?
she just went yesterday to spend the summer break in shanghai with her parents. so i hope i can learn about chinese culture and how a chinese girl loves to be treated in a relationship so we can try to make things work between us.
anyway, i m the romantic european guy i guess...so i like to flirt by doing a nice talk, that kind of stuff...
A guy who doesnt understand chinese love-relationship traditions!!