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hope this is helpful
actually i don't want to post any of this, im affraid someone might attact it with some racist things. but you seem like a decent guy, so i share with you what do i think about this matter.|
you should respect her, if she want to stay in her white wedding dress, let it be. if you are not okay with it go away. don't try to persuade her or try to change her mind about that. she was brought up that way and that is the value she hold. so if you can respect that and loves her enough to wait until the wedding you can go on with your relationship with her. but if not why keep it, in the end you only will break her heart and in a way seperate her with her family value.
indeed woman are complicated to understand, but the thing is woman don't want to be understood. they just want to be loved. some will like an open declamation of love some is more shy. woman always like attention, small gesture that you care for them, not necessary a gift but things that you remember when she just said it briefly.
i think all woman loves gifts, as for chinese girl as the culture is more traditional from western view they are not so open about expressing their feeling boldly, so go for small but toughtful gifts.
like her fave cd that she have forever and now almost become junk. miniature of her perfume to carry in her purse, jewelry is way too personal. a good book that you know that she will like, a ticket to a movie for her and her friends. basically think of her when you want to get her a gift, in that way your gift will be more personal and toughtful, and woman love that.
go easy and steady with her, don't move to fast but steady at giving attention. the attention is the key, show your affection in more traditional but good way, a big smile whenever you see her, a hug, hold her hand whenever you walk together. she will feell protected and safe with you.
and again she already told you that she wishes to remain in her white wedding dress, so don't approach her with sexual intention. a guy got a guy need, so if she don't worth the wait or the effort move along with someone more suitable for you and tell her honestly about that. she will understand.
i really hope this is helpful to you. really don't waste your time and her time if you don't mean to wait on her.