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Post time 2005-7-3 07:15:03 |Display all floors

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Post time 2005-7-3 07:23:52 |Display all floors

let me know please

so i have sat here in the uk when my gf will be startin her paris in sept

i have been with my gf for 2 years
her past has noty been very nice to her as her x bf have all used her so i have given her more tyo life than just a sexual thing

i am 28 and she is 22 so 6 years is not a big thing for me

i now know that for us to be together means 2 people have to trust and etc etc to make a relationship work

but yet i have doubts about chinese girls eg i worked in a restaraunt with many chinese girls whom seem to want to scale or profit someway

but yet i hope for me that true love foes exsist

i hope people on this bbs can advise me on what to do as this is my 1st real love

i have had many lovers in the past if i remember 50 +  but livin ion europe is not important how many u have

as i know for chinese people they see true love better than me

i am chinese but have lived in uk for nearly alll my life so losin my background has been sad

i do not know why the people i have worked with do this but they must hurt too?
when its over  but i do feel that some of them are reall cold hearted

thank you for listenin

and plz advise me on how i should do to keep me and my gf together ?

and can it work

or msn me on

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Post time 2005-7-3 17:36:13 |Display all floors


anyone give me any advise?

need to know if this can work?

or am i just wasting my time waiting for my gf

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Post time 2005-7-3 20:42:48 |Display all floors

It Can Work


Good luck


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Post time 2005-7-3 21:28:43 |Display all floors


i do not think so

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Post time 2005-7-4 03:21:03 |Display all floors

Yes, sometimes ...

Ljw_4444, so you are in the UK and she is in France (Paris)? Is that really a long distance?

Which part of the UK? If you are anywhere in the London area or South-East then Paris is 3 hours away on the train.

You say you are Chinese so what is your resident status in the UK? If you can move freely within the EU then visiting her should not be too difficult.

From experience, I agree with the point that age and maturity are important to build and maintain a relationship over a distance. Both parties also need to be honest and trusting, and it is very important to communicate.

Think about the future and what you think your relationship will achieve and understand the additional effort and challenges that distance adds to a relationship.

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Post time 2005-7-4 10:45:21 |Display all floors

Omar Khayyam ljw_4444

July 4, 2005  

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