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you are quite right :
"it is necessary for you to keep patient and respect your colleague.Mutual respect is absolutely important at any time.Sometimes, you can show excessively individual emotion while discussing queations. Unconsciously, what your saying or doing could hurt your colleagues’self-esteem.A conception you should know is that many of the whitecollar are somewhat narrow-minded, they mind what others said or did around them in an improper way.When contacting your colleagues,you could need change your style in saying and doing.when stepping into the society,we should learn to mix in with different people,which is necessary.A comfortable work environment and harmonic relationship of colleague depends on not only your leaders,but yourself.Of course,When other does not respect you ,you should let them taste the feeling of being disrespected. Respect is mutual.Patience is never boundless."
The coleague (one of the original good friends for me) i worked with seems was offended by my unconsciously words. she didn't say any word with me and when we meet she can ignore me during the working time. It makes me very embarrassed since we are in one office and it's unavoidable to communicate with each other. but i don't think what i did & said last time is wrong since the conflict is caused by her firstly. So when she didn't speak with me,i plan not to speak with her firstly also.. But to my surprise she actively help me when our manager is together with us when we out travelling... her "kindness" seems very sincerely. it makes me again fell very embarrassing though i said thousands of " thank you" to her... i thought that maybe the situation will be changed back to normal but when we back to office, again she ignore me and without saying any word to me...
I Know she can separate the" work" and "life" well, but for me, i think it's a bit hard. Do I need to change myself to be a bit " false"?