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A sad Story, but often true! =(
The story is a sad one. I'm sorry that it happened to you. Unfortunately, its the true world. In todays society (especially asian family), family background and wealth becomes an huge part of marriage and relationship. Parents wants the best for their child, but not necessarily understand the views of the younger generation. They want to find a mate for you that have an equal family background. As a 22 year old, I totally can understand your problem. My parents give me tons of pressure sometimes similar to what you are experiencing. For this I fought with my parents so many times about it. I believe that its really not family background that matter. What matters is your mate. You have to ask yourself, does he/she really is your true special one. Is he really someone that will cherrish the relationship for the rest of his life. Is he truly the one you want? If he is, no matter what, your parents will support you in the end because they love you, and will support you. |
Its always painful, but time will ease the pain. Right now at your point, i don't think its a good idea to contact him now since you guys already been apart. If you contact him now, you might get back, and in the end, the sad story will likely repeat itself, and pain will be with you again very likely.