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To me, young Chinese people on the mainland have no need to create a pretentious face to women! They have ready smiles and laughter, as perhaps, they have not had to experience some of the great sadness that is so many older Chinese hearts, I think. |
Today, young Chinese do not have to worry about the roles of emperors and peasants, they do not have to be gangsters, they don't have to someone from Hollywood -- there is no expectations in the Chinese society, at the present, to be anyone, except to themselves. In this sense, they are probably the freest young kids in the world to not feel the need to conform to some pre-established form or pattern!
Kids are trying different things they like, they are becoming comfortable with themselves and their freedoms, I think! Because they are happy, couples have a lot to be optimistic about and to look forward.
In China's big cities you can see a great many of the younger folks smiling and laughing, and you see the young girls are happy to be with their guys, they are enjoying themselves! They stroll the aisles arm-in-arm shopping, they hangout together in cafes and clubs and parks everywhere; they talk and have fun and laugh.
Young Chinese men can be suave and debonair, and they are. They can be successful young men, and many are.
I do not see them competing with the West, I see them expressing something that is uniquely their version of it (whatever it is -- nothing more really than another mishmash of world cultures); after all, what should one expect, they are creative and intelligent. They like Yoga from India, they like Chinese food, they like their modifications of everyone's music, why even their clubs are uniquely their own. What the Chinese express is uniquely Chinese and it will always be uniquely Chines, that is what I think!
I don't see what your concern is really all about.
Anyway, please start your own original post and thread, and there, expalin your interest; then we can move our posts over to it and address you directly. We would like this post to die, or for CD to remove it -- which they probably will get around to doing, if we took our discussion away from it.
Please start another thread!