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Reasons why Chinese girls date Western guys
First, airforcevet, please stop trolling.|
Okay, having worked and lived (and dated) in mainland China and now in HongKong, I think it is impossible to generalize the motives of Chinese girls who date westerners.
Nevertheless, there do seem to be a number of conflicting categories.
First, there are the girls who have a roseate-hued view of the west as a world of unlimited wealth and glamour. They are desperate to escape what they see as the drabness and limitations of China and latch onto a Westerner, often ANY westerner, they can find.
Second, there are the Wiggies and Wannabes, close cousins to the first category, who seem to despise their own culture and see themselves as "western" (being western is cool).
Third, there are the girls who are attracted to "Otherness", men from a culture that is exotic, different and alien from their own. They don't despise there own culture, but are nevertheless facinated by difference.
Fourth, there are girls who DO say Chinese men are too conservative, patriarchal, and emotionally and sexually repressed. They think - rightly or wrongly - that western guys are more passionate, emotionally expressive and open-minded.
And fifth, HEY ... there are mixed race couples who get together because they just find they are compatible in personality, interests and outlook! The fact they are from different ethnicities is irrelevant.