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> Sixty percent of Chinese parents tell their children to fight back when bullied|
You know, this is why bloody wars are possible. Because people are in that fighting mode. I agree that there is a point where you would need to fight back. Usually my rule of thumb is, to try to talk to them first, if you need to interact with them. If you won't ever need to see them again, just walk away. If you are confronted, then sometimes you have to fight back. But what you should try to do instead, is to not get yourself in that situation of being bullied in the first place. Yes! You can control this.
There is something you need to understand about your spirituality. You are never a victim. If you are bullied, it's because your mental state attracted that situation to you. Now I am not trying to blame the victim, as I would support the victim over the bully, but I'm saying the victim has full control of their own life. The mind is powerful. So if you are bullied, you need to look at yourself and why the situation has happened to you, and try to fix it from within.
The other thing is, if you are violent towards others, the violence will return to you. It's a universal law that is more powerful than any manmade law. It doesn't matter who started it. If you don't break the cycle, it will never end. This is why forgiveness is important whenever you are strong enough to forgive.
I hope this makes sense.