1584austin Post time: 2016-7-1 16:44
So you wouldn't advise a Son against it. Just let him go out and have sex with single girls that's ...
Well, for the son, hopefully if I raised him right, he wouldn't go sleeping around and breaking young girls' hearts. Hopefully he would only sleep with someone he truly cared about.
So boys should be taught to respect girls too, but they don't need to be taught to be careful about getting hurt by sex, which is what this thread is about. How many guys have become emotionally devastated because they had sex with the wrong person. But there are many cases where that's true for the girls.
So it's not hypocritical. The modern world has gone too far with equality. Men and women are not the same, so they can't be treated the same. It should be more about treating individuals with respect. So different treatment as appropriate but all with respect.
Asian dating culture is not the same as western dating culture. It would be hard to find a decent Asian guy (born and raised in Asia) who's okay about not being his wife's first. Not saying that's fair, but that's how it is.