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Post time 2015-1-5 10:47:34 |Display all floors
Bandito Post time: 2015-1-5 04:30
Fortunately I have never been. No plan to do so......too chaotic for my liking.

The girl is luck ...

India's a strange place, I've spent a fair amount of time there and it's wonderful yet can be extremely brutal too.  Old customs and ways die hard there and the sexist attitudes are horrible to be frank.

I think the problem will continue, it's impossible to tell younger people that they are not invincible and that it won't happen to them.  Japanese girls are like many East and South Eastern Asian women, very trusting and someone naive in their judgement qualities.   Add to that a scammer with charm and the girl(s) are easy prey.

At least in India women are slowly taking the law in to their own hands, as they are fed up with the lack of action by both police and the courts (assuming you can get it in to court).

I found this video of summary justice by some women in India.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggZDlxAXzhA

or the same video on youku for our China based readers.

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XODY0Nzg0MjY4.html

Per Ardua Ad Astra

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Post time 2015-1-5 18:02:32 |Display all floors
This post was edited by Bandito at 2015-1-5 17:59
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India's a strange place, I've spent a fair amount of time there and it's wonderful yet can be extr ...

Thank you. I don't like brutality for its sake and definitely against pillaging women etc simply because they fee/ffeltl like it.

One of my friend said as much re India. They cannot blame size in India as China is similar and folks are not running about raping women etc.
No, I live above Sunset Plaza, it's a little house I rent and it's a little rundown but has a beautiful view, what about you?

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Post time 2015-1-5 21:22:33 |Display all floors
It is not suitable to ask their phone number or other personal information when you meet a foreigner first time. For you are not a friend of him/her. Friends is not something you could 'make', they are two people have same interesting and could talk freely with each other.

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Post time 2015-1-5 21:26:20 |Display all floors
Go to where the people go, then. Bars, usually. If shyness is your problem, though, dress slutty. That's a great equaliser

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Post time 2015-1-6 01:56:46 |Display all floors
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India's a strange place, I've spent a fair amount of time there and it's wonderful yet can be extr ...

"India's a strange place"... yeah, all that rape and stuff, if you're a woman.

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Post time 2015-1-6 17:50:10 |Display all floors
Join some special interest groups, like cooking club, or art club, drama club, political club, astronomy club, etc.  You will then have a point of commonality to initiate meeting outside the club.  

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Post time 2015-1-6 21:42:30 |Display all floors
This post was edited by Azindoo at 2015-1-6 21:43

Just Look for one buy yourself .No definite answer .making friends can be by chance , by request , by help etc .
Its raining in Gz now just indoors

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