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Should husband let the wife manage his salary?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2014-8-8 10:41:59 |Display all floors
THEJET Post time: 2014-8-8 08:48
THE MEER ASKING THAT QUESTION ALREADY SHOWS A DIVISION BETWEEN A NON HUSBAND AND A NON WIFE.

A REAL ...

you got a point .

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Post time 2014-8-8 10:42:18 |Display all floors
zjjhpj Post time: 2014-8-8 10:15
First of all, I should find a wife and I will let her manger my salary ...........

good for you ~hah .

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VALARMORGHULIS Post time: 2014-8-8 10:42
good for you ~hah .

Thank you !

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zjjhpj Post time: 2014-8-8 10:44
Thank you !

You are welcome ~hah

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Post time 2014-8-8 11:02:41 |Display all floors
, and husbands are usually bread winners and they need to make their women secure financially.

so Chinese husband give their salary to make their women secure financially?

I think that´s a sign of masculine insecurity

What's the custom in your culture? Is it above and beyond the call of duty for a husband to give his wife spending money, or should food and shelter be considered enough?

In Latin culture it doesn´t exists this kind of customs. Most husbands and wives manage the salary together. They don´t need to make feel secure the other one because they know, love and trust each other well and share together everything.

Looking forward your experience from both side Man & Woman. Thanks.

My ex never demanded such kind of silly act and my current Chinese wife never demanded such kind of silly act too.

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Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-8-8 19:30:58 |Display all floors
First question: what is money?

Hold on..... Let me go and ask my wife. Many moons ago she mentioned that word together with "it's mine"!

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Post time 2014-8-8 21:11:47 |Display all floors
It depends how deep husband love her wife and their bilateral ties

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