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Would you forgive your partner for cheating?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2014-8-5 18:58:51 |Display all floors
Maybe it is easy to forgive when you are not the participant, but when yourself come to this, you maybe not accept it  so easily~

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onceaknight Post time: 2014-7-29 13:26
Married 25 years, beautiful home, a 2nd home in Perigueux France, new car every 3 years insurance pa ...

Similar thing happened to me. 25 years married, two beautiful daughters, lovely home also one in France. He fell in love with young Chinese girl and gave everything up. Stopped paying mortgages and school fees. Relationship lasted about 3 months.  Would not have him back. He has no morals and I don't trust anything he says.  Better off without him and deserve so much more.  So do you.  

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Post time 2014-10-2 11:51:10 |Display all floors
forget-me-not Post time: 2014-7-17 22:42
I can forive once.But just once.
If the 2nd time happens,I will lose belief.


You forgive once, you will always forgive
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

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Post time 2014-10-2 16:11:18 |Display all floors
This post was edited by incarnationabc at 2014-10-2 16:23

The problem is not about forgiving or not forgiving, but about still loving and still being loved.

When the parnter cheated on you, most of the cases, they found you were not attractive to them any more; or you cannot meet or ignore their certain needs. That's it. If so, it is time to end up the relationship if the problem of yours cannot be fixed up.

When coming up to cheating, obviously there lacks effective communication between the couples.

Please don't tell me it is all their faults but none of yours.
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Post time 2014-10-2 18:59:16 |Display all floors
If I chose to be with another, I would trust him to be faithful...he wouldn't be running around...I think I would figure it out before we tied the knot, what kind of man he was, and I would only marry him if I was sure he would be faithful. I couldn't marry him otherwise. I think these things do depend on a person's character and personality--there are things that some people just won't do.

But to answer your question...If we had children, I would forgive him. Without children, it's an easy good-bye.
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Post time 2014-10-2 19:14:07 |Display all floors
ll利 Post time: 2014-10-2 17:42
As long as my wife wasn't with a mainland Chinese, India or African, Id forgive her.
The above inclu ...

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