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Popularity 5Viewed 2650 times 2014-5-16 22:51 |Personal category:my problems|System category:Life

  After joining in some activities of our class, I gradually realize that I have no sense of existence in this group. I communicate with them, they ignore me. I give them some my suggestions, which I never expect them to accept these, but they still neglect me. I am active to hand up, they extinguish my enthusiasm with their cold water… I don’t know why? Even though I am not a class leader, I still keep a warm heart to help my dear classmates and be optimistic to participate in class activities. I am confused. I just want to cry--the best way to conquer the sadness for me.(haha!)


  Several times ago, I thought such problems would be solved in some day. However, it still exists now. What should I do now? Go to next group, and search for my existence on it? Maybe this is the best measure at present, but in the long run, I fear that the same questions will occur.


 I am at sea! If you read it, please feel free to give me some suggestions. I truly need your help.

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Reply Report BeanCC 2014-5-17 13:00
Take care!Everything gonna be nice!
Reply Report other_roads 2014-5-18 02:41
Others think that you want to be noticed too much maybe...They can't understand that you only want to share your ideas...You'd better remain quiet for the moment among your classmates and express yourself somewhere else...You are a lively girl so you need lively friends. ...ok, 我要说汉语。。。现在, 我只说英语。。。很麻烦!不好!
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-18 12:12
BeanCC: Take care!Everything gonna be nice!
I HOPE SO!
Reply Report Crazybunny 2014-5-20 21:29
Sometimes, I have the same feelings as you! I think  you should try to surpass them at least in one dimension and convince them that you are capable.
Reply Report Winmie 2014-5-30 23:32
+1. In my class, I'm a quiet person. I usually go to school by myself when others with their roommates. Maybe others will think I'm strange and lonely,EVEN eccentric. But when I come across my classmates, I will say hello and chat with them(Those who I'm familiar with). Those ignore me, of course, I ignore them also.   To some extent, I love my senior school friends more.

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  • Please help me. 2014-5-30 23:32

    +1. In my class, I'm a quiet person. I usually go to school by myself when others with their roommates. Maybe others will think I'm strange and lonely,EVEN eccentric. But when I come across my classmates, I will say hello and chat with them(Those who I'm familiar with). Those ignore me, of course, I ignore them also.   To some extent, I love my senior school friends more.

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