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How do you think of those lovelorn people for the first love?

Popularity 9Viewed 2357 times 2014-5-4 23:34 |System category:Life| people

Have you ever met and communicated with lovelorn people? Do you know what they are eager to embody most? If they find you to pour out, what should you do? Recently, I donknow why my relatives and friends losing their lovers gradually, and what amaze me most is their first love!

 

IApril, with most likely the result of the condition that I am a single from birth to now, they found me and were very glad of sharing their experiences with me. Now, please allow me to introduce some my ideas.

 

First of all, their topics are always surrounding by predecessors, and what we should do is to be an excellent listener. Even though they have suffered from many trials, their immature souls still have been seriously traumatized. They cant jump out of the shadow of the first love until they run into the next true love. Before they encounter with Mr. Right, however, how can their injured souls be cured and recovered? Consideration for the struggle in their bottom heart, I tell them that I will always be their best audient and please they dont stress themselves from talking about predecessors, including their strengths and weaknesses. With time going by, their emotion will become smoother and smoother.

 

Secondly, their next mate would probably be more realistic, and the enthusiasm of love would be dramatically descended. For large number of them, they claim that the first love is most beautiful and pure and even irreplaceable. Maybe the reason can be explained by Diminishing Marginal Utility.

 

Thirdly, they would teach you do not treat the other half diligently, because of hoping that you never followed the same old disastrous road they had gone. In fact, the richer meaning is if your love to your lover exceeds the lover lay to you, the tragedy may happen then. Just as the old saying goes, the love scale out of balance represents the love journey over.

 

At last, it is suggested that we should pay more attention to those lovelorn people around us, and send them your reliable shoulders at crucial time.

 



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Reply Report claudeckenni 2014-5-5 13:20
Love is a wonderful thing.
You never have to take it away
From one person to give it to another.
There's always more than enough to go around.
Reply Report kays 2014-5-6 13:22
gaoduan
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-6 13:28
kays: gaoduan
YOU'RE SO HUMOROUS!
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-6 13:31
claudeckenni: Love is a wonderful thing.
You never have to take it away
From one person to give it to another.
There's always more than enough to go around.
Your thought is more cultured! I think you have gone through more.
Reply Report tanky 2014-5-6 14:15
I like it
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-6 16:42
tanky: I like it
Thanks for your approval!
Reply Report claudeckenni 2014-5-6 19:16
Yes, I am =)
Been through a lot, done this and that, hahaha
Reply Report Lemon____ 2014-5-6 21:16
When did you have long hair?
Reply Report Aroy 2014-5-6 22:13
And then,just like everyone says,time will make us forget that person.
Reply Report KKKAI 2014-5-6 22:41
There are plenty more fish in the sea
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-6 23:15
Lemon____: When did you have long hair?
for two years!
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-6 23:17
Aroy: And then,just like everyone says,time will make us forget that person.
your words is so beautiful
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-6 23:17
KKKAI: There are plenty more fish in the sea
  
Reply Report Kasen_J 2014-5-6 23:34
An excellent article!!Love it!!
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-7 12:31
Kasen_J: An excellent article!!Love it!!
Are you kidding me ?
Reply Report ╰☆ 2014-5-7 16:43
come on
Reply Report L-Juliet 2014-5-7 17:06
╰☆: come on
thanks!

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