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Love & hatred,which will win?

Popularity 7Viewed 3980 times 2014-3-27 03:14 |System category:Others| husband, getting, friend, 2014

      On Mar. 8, 2014, My best friend was getting married. I gave best wishes for her and waited to see her and her husband at our hometown. I know, the newly-wed definitely love each other deeply.
     On the Morning of that day,when I was at home, busy with housework, I heard my husband say," There is a big accident. The plane from Malaysia is lost."
      Lost? What on earth happened? Some of my friends often take planes to Malaysia on business. At that moment, I was worried about them. They are my friends, and of course, I love them. Then, the offical news and the media have disclosed who were on the plane. They were strangers to me, but they were fresh lives, as living as any innocent people.  I don't know them, but I  am still worried about them and their relatives, who have been desperately waited for their coming back. I wish they could come back, all alive, and then all the tears and waiting will be rewarded. There are many common people, who do not know them, but cherish the same hope as mine.
      But after 17 days search, the bad news come that the plane ended in south Indian Ocean. The cruel fact mercilessly kills our hope. I know, there is too much torture for the relatives waiting for their coming back. I know, the grief will not end, nor the search for the truth.
      It is reported that the crew commander is highly suspicious. But I just don't know what makes this guy or someone else manage to kill hundreds of persons, whom they don't know, who have not hurt him, who are totally innocen.
       Hatred? The anti-social and anti-human hatred have propelled the persecution on innocent stangers?
       It is a miracle for a human life to come in this world. We love our families, friends, lovers, and why can't we love strangers?Even we may be absolutely hurt by our loved ones, even we have been ill-treated by the society or the strangers, why should we take revenge on the irrelevant persons? Why not cherish the little love from the botom of our heart, and make the world a better place?
        We live, for love, not hatred. The cultivation of huaman being need a clear clue, that is , love will overwhelm hatred!
     

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Reply Report voice_cd 2014-3-27 10:01
Thanks for sharing your story here, we have highlighted your blog.
Reply Report juzunme 2014-3-27 15:39
In times of tragedy, those suffering needs an outlet for their emotion and it's all too easy to look for someone to blame as an emotional outlet.
Kinda wonder, must you wait till you lose it before you treasure it? I suppose this tragedy opens up a lot of questions for those affected and how they are to move on.
There just need to be proper closure in know the person is indeed gone and that you have done all proper by them.
Reply Report fluteyi 2014-3-27 21:08
voice_cd: Thanks for sharing your story here, we have highlighted your blog.
Thank you. highlight here means ?(Chinese )
Reply Report fluteyi 2014-3-27 21:15
juzunme: In times of tragedy, those suffering needs an outlet for their emotion and it's all too easy to look for someone to blame as an emotional outlet.
Kin ...
I believe there must be some common points among different peoples, nations, because  of the humanity. I am not so much self-confused/lost person as an idealist one.
Reply Report juzunme 2014-3-29 10:45
Hi fluteyi, you're certainly not lost considering your well written article . A bit of idealism is good as a way forward.
Reply Report fluteyi 2014-3-29 13:04
juzunme: Hi fluteyi, you're certainly not lost considering your well written article . A bit of idealism is good as a way forward.
thank u! All I want is to share my true ideas and thoughts with friends as well as myself. Sometimes, writting helps us think more deeply.
Reply Report juzunme 2014-3-29 16:40
Yes, same here. I find writing soothing.
Reply Report ColinSpeakman 2014-4-5 16:54
fluteyi: Thank you. highlight here means ?(Chinese )
Highlight means draw attention to.  
Reply Report ColinSpeakman 2014-4-5 16:58
fluteyi: thank u! All I want is to share my true ideas and thoughts with friends as well as myself. Sometimes, writting helps us think more deeply.
It does. And sometimes it brings on a joke! Anyway the pen should be mightier than the sword. Then I thought, but it is hard to fight someone with a humble pen - unless I squirt some ink in his eye. But nowadays we are writing with computers. Hit someone over the head with a 15 inch laptop should do it!

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  • Love & hatred,which will win? 2014-4-5 16:58

    fluteyi: thank u! All I want is to share my true ideas and thoughts with friends as well as myself. Sometimes, writting helps us think more deeply.
    It does. And sometimes it brings on a joke! Anyway the pen should be mightier than the sword. Then I thought, but it is hard to fight someone with a humble pen - unless I squirt some ink in his eye. But nowadays we are writing with computers. Hit someone over the head with a 15 inch laptop should do it!

  • Love & hatred,which will win? 2014-4-5 16:54

    fluteyi: Thank you. highlight here means ?(Chinese )
    Highlight means draw attention to.  

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