Mugy Post time 2012-12-10 23:45:36

what should I do??

Today,I was informed of being attend his wedding ceremony in a few days.Yeah,he is one of my close friend may I can not search for any reasons to refuse his invitation in the light of our relation.However,he told me that the date for his wedding ceremony has been fixed by his parents.they are going to hold the ceremony on the morning of January 3.but the time of Postgraduate Entrance Exam is  start January 5..Moreover,there have a long distance between their home and my school,It cost approximately more than seven hours if I depart from my school to his home by train...Currently,I am at all sea.One one hand,he is my close friend and strictly speaking,wedding ceremony is a highly special banquet for every individuals and I also comprehend his motives,what he wanna is that all of his sincere friends would show up on that extraordinary moment and could give their heartful wishes to the two.On the other hand,this vital exam I have prepared for it more than half year is approaching and at present I am in fine fettle,I hope this kind of good condition would last until the end of exam.I can not ensure my attentions would not be distracted If I spend two days in attending his ceremony....As a result,I am confused by the there any reliable suggestions for me to cope with the matter? I also consider to give him a red envelope as my gift..However,I am in a dilemma toward the number of money I am about to put in the red envelope..yeah,when I mentioned the amount of money and one of my friend told me the number she ever gave when she attend her friend`s banquet is 500RMB.To tell the truth,which has really made me a little surprised,Firstly,what we expended in our daily life derives from our parents rather than being earned by ourselves.Yeah,If I have worked and I can obtain salary,may I also would have given 500RMB without any hesitation.Nevertheless,we are not....But,how many I should give?

Laowai2? Post time 2012-12-11 01:01:07

The red envelope is anonymous so who will know? 500 is far too much unless you are rich.

dostoevskydr Post time 2012-12-11 01:07:04

"But,how many I should give?"

raton Post time 2012-12-11 01:09:45

Mugy Post time 2012-12-11 22:46:22

Laowai2? Post time: 2012-12-11 01:01 static/image/common/back.gif
The red envelope is anonymous so who will know? 500 is far too much unless you are rich.

The key is that all of my daily expenses is derived from my parents....To tell the truth,the amount for red envelope really beyond the scope of my payment capacity in terms of my current situation...

Mugy Post time 2012-12-11 23:12:30

raton Post time: 2012-12-11 01:09 static/image/common/back.gif
How can you give something like money if you haven’t earned yourself..?

Several years ago,we were tend to give away a little present as a token of our good will when refered to birthday or other festivals.but now,all things has been altered and what we sent to our friends is something expensive...I also found out the tendency and the red envelope gradually become something popular in our daily seemed that nothing can be more appropriate than money in some occasion..

Mugy Post time 2012-12-11 23:15:45

dostoevskydr Post time: 2012-12-11 01:07 static/image/common/back.gif
"But,how many I should give?"

For wedding ceremony,may 999 tend to be more suitable.the number of 999 is emblematic of eternity..but my present situation does not allow me to do like that...
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