appreciate2017 Post time 2017-11-2 19:42:41

How do we deal with our jealousy?

I realized something from my colleague's complaints. She is so upset and jealous once we talk about our supervisor, a woman who seems to own everything like a happy family ( successful and considerate husband, a clever son, a new born daughter) and good developing career in a traditional thinking way. Unconsciously we easily fall into such dangerous traps, incoordinate comparisons.  

Yin_99 Post time 2017-11-2 20:37:42

smartarse Post time 2017-11-2 21:18:05

I easily become jealous and can't control my emotion. I don't admire at what they have . I just concerns that why I always lost something I ever had.

appreciate2017 Post time 2017-11-3 15:50:57

Yin_99 Post time: 2017-11-2 20:37 static/image/common/back.gif
Hoho good question - the truth is there should be no individual worth of being jealousy due to such  ...

Everything has two sides. The negatives enjoy the small world of their own, keep complaining and being jealous. The positives take others who are better than them in a certain aspect as a competitor and it makes them get better and better.

appreciate2017 Post time 2017-11-3 15:52:44

smartarse Post time: 2017-11-2 21:18 static/image/common/back.gif
I easily become jealous and can't control my emotion. I don't admire at what they have . I just conc ...

Then control your emotion and let rational mind come back. Study the thing and check out what you should do instead of just yelling.{:1_1:}

maitianking Post time 2017-12-1 21:48:39

Following our own heart ! Too many people and things can not been changed . Listen to the god!:lol

SEARU Post time 2017-12-2 21:10:21

I think everyone should develop his or her own hobby which could keep the mind in balance forever!
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