senoritazhao Post time 2017-4-28 14:38:07

Strong Women Should Never Do These Things For a Man - or Anyone Else

When you're head over heels for someone, or maybe when you're feeling insecure, it's sometimes easy to put someone else's wants and needs before your own. But if you don't catch yourself in time, you may lose a part of who you are. Ladies, don't ever do the following five things for a man - or for anyone.

senoritazhao Post time 2017-4-28 14:41:24

1. Change your appearance. If your SO is a decent human being, theywon't ever force you to alter the way you look for their benefit. They shouldlove you for you, and all of you. If your weight, hair, or style really bothershim, he's clearly not with you for the right reasons. Any physical changes youmake should be made because you want them, not for attention or for someoneelse. 2. Compromise your passions. Absolutely no one should get in the way ofyour goals. It is your life, after all, and nobody else will regret leaving anydreams behind more than you. The decision to pass on a job opportunity or putan idea on hold might seem best at the moment, but the future is neverguaranteed. Your partner should support your endeavors, and if he's willing tocome along for the ride, that's just a bonus. 3. Wait for his approval. A strong woman plays by her rules anddoesn't sit around for instructions. You should be assertive and go forwardwith your own decisions rather than seek validation from someone else. You'regrown enough to know what's best for you.4. Cancel already-set plans. It's different to reschedule when somethingimportant comes up, but it's problematic when you drop what you're doing justto be with him. Your friends and family should not be on the sideline and onlybrought in when he's unavailable. You should never be on standby, and if he'srespectful, he won't mind catching you another time. 5. Let him change who you are. Don't change who you are for anyone butyourself. And if you do decide to make any self-adjustments, they should beimprovements that will better you. It's possible that he'd be more interestedif you do x, y, and z, but he wouldn't genuinely like you for you. Never losesight of who you are.

Chengking Post time 2017-4-28 17:00:03

And don't ask if he owns a house/condo and a car...

seneca Post time 2017-4-28 19:08:35

parcher Post time 2017-4-28 19:10:03

Chengking Post time: 2017-4-28 17:00 static/image/common/back.gif
And don't ask if he owns a house/condo and a car...

:handshake

zjjhpj Post time 2017-4-28 19:10:21

so called NV HAN ZI ?!

foreignchinese Post time 2017-4-28 21:55:22

Some points are reasonable. Overall these are perfect ingredients of a confirmed spinster.
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