sunnylin01 Post time 2016-6-27 11:22:34

Are girls having premarital sex 'cheap'?
Front cover of the textbook.
A sex education textbook issued to high schools in Jiangxi Province was accused of calling girls who have premarital sex cheap, triggering a public debate of gender inequality.

Xiao Chuwu (pseudonym), a high school teacher in Shenzhen, South China's Guangdong Province, took to Weibo on Wednesday to quote a passage from High School Sex Education that says girls are "degraded" by premarital sex.

sunnylin01 Post time 2016-6-27 11:23:49
The contents that stirred controversies.

"Premarital sex has a tremendous negative psychological and physical impact on girls," reads the book by 21st Century Publishing Group.

"Girls do not increase the love they receive from boys by sacrificing their bodies, but rather are seen as 'degraded' by their 'conquerors,'" the book continues. "As a result, sexual relations can cause women to lose love."

Xiao's post drew a lot of attention. "Sex education is supposed to protect teenagers, not intimidate or insult them," wrote a Sina Weibo user. "The press should name itself 'The 18th Century Publishing Group," said another.

The 21st Century Publishing Group said the wording is not insulting to women and pointed out that words like "degraded" appear in quotes. A total of 2,000 copies of the book have been issued to high school seniors in Jiangxi since 2004.

Local c0-publisher Jiangxi Higher Education Press claimed they stopped issuing the book in 2006. Both publishers vowed to "make appropriate edits," the Legal Mirror reported Friday. (Global Times)

1584austin Post time 2016-6-27 14:23:18

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The contents that stirred controversies.

Same old story, it's ok for a bloke to knob as many girls as possible and he's a stud. But if a girls takes plenty up the gonger she's cheap

leho Post time 2016-6-27 21:01:15

I've never had premarital sex. For women, you don't really need penetration to reach orgasm. I think Chinese women should learn about orgasm. It would help with the happiness factor. I bet they know nothing about it.

Well, if guys can sleep around, I don't know why girls can't. But really, would girls really want to sleep around. Guys can do it without giving rise to emotional attachment. But women easily get attached with guys they sleep with. It's natural. So men need sex more than women. But some women like sex and they enjoy multiple partners. Well, it's their life, who are you to call them names, if it weren't for your own insecurity? So men who judge women who have premarital sex as cheap, I bet those same men have gone to bed with unmarried women. Hypocritical much?

A mentally healthy, secure man wouldn't try to control a single woman's sex life and wouldn't judge her as anything.

leho Post time 2016-6-27 21:17:42

> Premarital sex has a tremendous negative psychological and > physical impact on girls

It should read "can have"...first it depends on the girl's age. Younger girls are more vulnerable. Secondly, it depends on the guy she sleeps with. If he is truly the one for her, and he is sincere and loves her and not using her, then it won't hurt her. But if he uses her for sex, dumps her the next day, then yeah, it would hurt her badly.

I would say it's better for girls to wait. But there's no need to call them cheap if they don't. Life is hard enough, you don't need to make a bad situation worse.

coralbay Post time 2016-6-27 21:35:01

1584austin Post time 2016-6-27 21:41:47

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