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I am a confidant and mentor to a young lady here in China who is making some very big decisions for her life right now.




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When I was a young girl I would never choose anyone to love unless he was  suitable  according to my parents' expectations.I wanted them to be proud of me
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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xilaren Post time: 2012-2-22 04:37
When I was a young girl I would never choose anyone to love unless he was  suitable  according to my ...

Thank you for your answer. Please help me to understand. It is more important in China to make your parents proud (and make them happy) and sacrifice your own love and happiness. True? Thank you again for your reply.
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China features a collectivist culture.
Compliance with the group is more important
than the wishes of the individual.
Other than that, encourage her to do the western thing.
It's important to be true to yourself.
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Post time 2012-2-22 11:26:20 |Display all floors
"Choose your own love".....Actually,I was suffered by this severe problem before and i was insisted my choice and tried my best to persuade our parents....Successfully......Happliness life forever....

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redob Post time: 2012-2-22 10:14
China features a collectivist culture.
Compliance with the group is more important
than the wishes o ...

Thank you for your very insightful reply. I appreciate very much.
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paddyhuang Post time: 2012-2-22 11:26
"Choose your own love".....Actually,I was suffered by this severe problem before and i was insisted  ...

Thank you. I agree but I am a Westerner. This is why I need other's perspectives.
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