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The woman in the neighborhood

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People say that she is out of her mind because her personality changed greatly. She becomes so fractious and yells at anyone she doesn’t like. She was easily irritated when she caught sight of her husband. she says she hates him with all her heart. It is he who pushed her to be mad. She was once a gentle and easy-going housewife who took charge of all the housework and does some little part-time jobs to support the family. She is from rural area without much education. She reminds me of an elastic rubber band. She never complain about any hardship life has presented her. However, she erupted like a volcano without warning. The neighborhood was shocked and felt sympathetic for her. She deserved to be loved but her husband ruined it all.

 

Her husband has to face the pressure from the neighborhood and apologies to her. But she was too irritated to forgive him. She shouted at him threw things at him and didn’t accept any kindness he had shown. she was indeed out of her mind but she was stuck in the world that he betrayed her by having an affair with another woman and he had been making so many fraudulent promises which she finally tore them up. The price she paid for his obscene behavior was too much. Now she cries out the hatred and anger in her mental disorder way. She just wanted to speak out and called for equality and respect. After she got mad, she kept saying all about the things which upset her in her daily life. what she said was powerful enough to make all her families feel shame. She went through all the hardship without any complains and her families took it for granted and treated like dirt, especially her husband. he beat her when he thought she was in the way and scolded her whenever he was in a bad mood. Finally, the seemingly flexible rubber band broke.

This is the first case that I saw with my own eyes. Life pressure can really drive people mad. How to deal with the pressure piling up in your mind in time is very important otherwise you are carrying a time bomb with you.

I felt sorry for the woman and again I realize the importance of a woman’s independence. Being a woman, we should be strong and have self-esteem. Equality is paramount in a good relationship.

While I am finishing this article, I hear a neighbor saying that she is gradually calm down today under the care of her children who come back home from work in another city. She needs someone to talk to and to love her. I am happy about that and bless her to recover soon. Best wishes to her.

Good people deserve to be loved. And I still believe that God will never give the test that we can not pass.


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Most Chinese women do not know what love actually is until after they have had experienced that from other men. This is a serious problem in most places. Perhaps, women could organize some social exchanges to allow them to understand their real needs.

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  • Unconditional love 2017-2-14 14:42

    Love is the same for all humankind. It is shown differently in all cultures.

  • The woman in the neighborhood 2017-2-14 14:41

    Most Chinese women do not know what love actually is until after they have had experienced that from other men. This is a serious problem in most places. Perhaps, women could organize some social exchanges to allow them to understand their real needs.

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