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Be more tolerant to the weird stuffs

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I am sure you have ever heard of the news that a person standing on the top of a high building or to put it be more exactly, on somewhere dangerous, and threatening others by showing that he or she want to commit suicide. While in fact, death is not their final aims. They just want their voice be heard. They need help but nevertheless feel so helpless that they would like to go to the extreme. But this is definitely not the best solution. And it may cause others much more troubles. Wasting the time of the police and people who are going to work but trap in the traffic jams caused by this scene, to name a few.  



And as for me, I do not show sympathy to these people. They are not rational and too weak in their mind when facing the difficulties. Just think it over, what will happen when a girl standing on the top of her building and threatening that she will jump if her boyfriend does not come to her? Maybe, her boyfriend does come later but will they really make up the contradiction and restore good relations? In the man’s mind, won’t he think that her girlfriend is so dangerous and maybe she will do the same thing the next time they have some flights? Love will never be easy and light hearted for him to bear maybe. The result will be much better if she consider the things in a more rational way. If the love does not belong to you any more, just let go. And time will heal all the pain anyway.



It seems that people in nowadays’ society love putting on all kinds of performances. The other day a piece of news said that a young woman had a big ceremony with her boyfriend who was actually would break up with her as soon as the ceremony was over. That is to say, their relationship will go to the end. But to my surprise, the ceremony is quite alike that in the movie call if you are the one.(非诚勿扰) The ceremony included cutting the cake, drinking the wine and more puzzling is that they dressed like the bride and bridegroom. I am sure the activity must cost much money , which I think the money could have spent in another practical and reasonable way. Well, it is none of my business and above all, the money is not mine and what I think it is worthless maybe priceless to them. But I can’t help myself showing a little contempt to their behaviors. And I consider this as vulgar stagy personal performance.

If you really want to end a relationship, why do you take pain in designing something so special that may become the painful memory that haunt you after the loved one can never be yours? Does it really make sense to do so? Am I too old fashion to understand this breaking-up art?  Perhaps yes!  And what’s more, I am also can not accept what a man did in another piece of news. It is said that the man have kneeled down for a month in order to get the forgiveness from her girl. I do not moved by this and on the contrary, I think the man was foolish and had no ambition at all. What’s wrong with these people?


For a couple of days I was confused with their behaviors. And after some short discussions with my husband, I finally draw the following conclusion.

 Maybe I shall be much more tolerant to all kinds of weird phenomenon. After all, the world we are living are diversified in all aspects and there are new things pop up every second, most of which you can never tell why. So be broad-minded enough to accept all the new changes around and this maybe a good way to feeling the dynamic of our society.


At last, I want to share a piece of news of today. There is a human feast holds in a shopping mall in Changchun.  The cook put some food on the bodies of the beauties who are half-naked. Maybe you have read it. Strange as it is, I accept it in some degreed, perhaps it is a form of art as far as it has no bad influence on the society. What do you think,pals?

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  • Unconditional love 2017-2-14 14:42

    Love is the same for all humankind. It is shown differently in all cultures.

  • The woman in the neighborhood 2017-2-14 14:41

    Most Chinese women do not know what love actually is until after they have had experienced that from other men. This is a serious problem in most places. Perhaps, women could organize some social exchanges to allow them to understand their real needs.

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