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Living on worries and tribulations but Dying from fecklessness and playfulness

Viewed 367 times 2017-7-7 09:51 |System category:Life

I am gonna make my weakness in public, here in my blog.

There is a Chinese saying which goes as "生于忧患死于安乐", which means living on worries and tribulations but dying from fecklessness and playfulness. This is my interpretation of the Chinese saying and maybe it is not 100 percent correct from perspectives of Chinese traditional culture experts but the interpretation is relevant to my weakness.

The last blog where I have told you that I have no idea what I am going to do for my future implies my weakness--always staying in self comfort zone and taking all difficulties out of mind but never making up my mind to face up with those difficulties and being confident in defeating them.

When asked what your plan is for your senior school year or whether you are going to prepare for post-graduation examination or what you are going to do this summer, I always answer "wait for time to see it","I will figure it out but it must take time","I don't plan to do that but wait to see what is suitable for me", etc.

So yesterday I play video games the whole day and nothing came to my mind, reminding me of what I should do. I am always not a planner but always a escaper, always tring to escape doing this or doing that because I only see the difficulties but not the opportunities underlying there.

Here I write about my weakness not in order to remind me of my weakness so that I may defeat it. I always know that it is easy for me to forget to get rid of my bad habbits, not to mention my deeply-rooted weakness. My purpose is very simple, just to let me know I have this weakness. Whether it will be rid of or not, we will see. If I succeed in ridding it of, I will make the result in public, here in the future blog.

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  • Any wrong about an art masterpiece? 2017-6-21 22:24

    Actually I may make you misunderstood. Before China's reform and opening-up, an very important policy to China and to the world as well, Chinese women preferred to cover up, only leaving their faces, necks and hands in the air. So there was a long time when Chinese women filled themselves up with clothes. And now, the old Chinese people or even my mom still think they are so exposed with just a little cloth when girls on TV show more parts of their bodies outside, of course, they are wearing clothes still. But Chinese young girls do copy the trend of wearing shorts to show off their fair-skinned legs, which started in South Korea, I think. In South Korea there are many girl groups. They are singers and dancers as well. They wear short dress or short shorts to attract our eyeballs. As far as I am concerned, in terms of the Chinese girls who wear shorts or short skirts, maybe there are some sluts but I believe that most of them just want to follow the trend, feeling confident themselves and maybe they just like the way they are dressed. Another thing to add to that is that Chinese modern girls still want to cover their upper bodies so they choose clothes that help avoid any exposion of their upper bodies except for their arms,necks and faces. So in fact, you can't easily find any sluts in China, yet. Back to the topic of my blog, my point is that the art I saw a few days ago is made with a thing which shapes as a woman's body and the painter drawed a traditional Chinese picture on it. I think it is fine for art to do so. We should not think about sex while talking about art. Art is nothing to do with sex just as sex is nothing to do with art. The last point I want to talk with you is that I am not a person who welcomes sluts, not to mention to be OK with it. But I love arts. Art embodies beauty and inspiration. Anyway, you do give me a new way to think about girls who wear so sexually even when they don't mean it.

  • Any wrong about an art masterpiece? 2017-6-20 20:49

    Not all females like to dress like a slut. Many females still do dress like ladies and to me this is far more attractive. I agree with China that sluts should be made to feel ashamed of themselves. Why do females feel the need to display their bodies in public anyway? It is because they are sluts. The worst ones are the ugly sluts because they are disgusting. Some guy like you will encourage sluts because you are only thinking of the hot ones but what happens when you have to walk by some big fat 60 year old slut that has decided to go topless in public? This should be enough to make any person vomit but in ridiculous places like New York USA where they encourage sluts there is nothing that can be done about all of these disgustingly ugly sluts that get about. Is that really what you want? To give license to any horrid old slut to walk about in public without a shirt or bra on? You need to think much harder. And even a hot chick that walks about without a shirt on should be despised because what are they trying to gain by dressing this way? Advantage? What massive sluts these sluts are. And you know what else is slutty? High heels. Why do females where high heels? To be festive? It is because they are sluts. And all of these sluts that wear skirts to work all through winter - what massive sluts they are. They know why they have the job dont they? Guys like you wouldnt be as nice to them if they wore flat shoes and other sensible non-slutty clothing would they? What sluts!

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