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How do you judge beauty?

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How do you judge beauty?

This is a topic I have been thinking before. Two or three days ago, I saw online a photo of a girl. She wears a paire of Jeans and an exposed cowboy shirt undone and she is wearing a pair of sunglasses at the same time. She is leaning on the rail against the river, crossing her ankles a little bit with a seeming smile worn on her face. The first impression of the image for me is lovely and so attracitve. I can't help myself falling in love with her. I've got mesmerized and my hormones rose a bit of higer.

So as to me, I admit I probably would judge a person by her appearance, especially when it is a girl. My affection occurs when I see girls with long, slim legs and slender waist. It could be better if she wears long hair loosely on her shoulders and at her back. Probably, I would try to find a girl who meet some of these requirements. Life is not perfect; reality does not always come the way you've thought though.

You may rebut me with answers like beauty consists of two elements - appearance and inner beauty. I do agree on this in some sense. Actually, I've ever fallen in love with a girl who has wonderful inner beauty. She has scars, one on the back of her hand, the other on the side right under her ear. She must have undergone an accident, though, she was optimistic. Every time I meet with her, she always greets with me with sunshine-like smile. I love her smile even until now, so soft so warm.

No body can be perfect, so neither I. But I think it is alright to accept my defect of judging people by appearance. Yet, when we get familar with people, we will appeciate their inner beauty rather than their appearance. And furthermore, inner beauty is what we evaluate others afterwards, ignoring their appearance eventually.

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